I am having issues with this right now. I really find it disturbing when you are treated like a walking uterus. There is respect that needs to flow both ways for this to be successful. And, not just baby successful, but emotionally also.
I can play devils advocate for a min also. There are many on the other side that say, look you are getting paid so basically that is what you are. I hear surrogates whom refer to themselves in the same way. There is not enough money in the world to make me lie down and let someone walk all over me.
This is a sore subject to me right now. LOL Can you tell??? :)